{"id":739,"date":"2025-03-03T14:00:36","date_gmt":"2025-03-03T14:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ecjo2.commu.isfsc.be\/?p=739"},"modified":"2025-03-03T14:00:37","modified_gmt":"2025-03-03T14:00:37","slug":"lalcool-un-lien-social-a-repenser","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ecjo2.commu.isfsc.be\/index.php\/2025\/03\/03\/lalcool-un-lien-social-a-repenser\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u2019alcool, un lien social \u00e0 repenser\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

F\u00e9vrier, mois de la Tourn\u00e9e Min\u00e9rale<\/a>, est l\u2019occasion id\u00e9ale pour s\u2019abstenir de boire. Ancien comitard \u00e0 l\u2019ULB, Dorian* a bien connu la culture \u00e9tudiante festive. Aujourd\u2019hui b\u00e9n\u00e9vole dans une association de r\u00e9duction des risques, il nous a confi\u00e9 comment l\u2019alcool a fa\u00e7onn\u00e9 sa vie sociale<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00ab\u00a0Il y a une illusion de lien social. Tu crois \u00eatre entour\u00e9, mais au final, tu ne partages que des soir\u00e9es d\u2019ivresse.<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb insiste Dorian. Remettre en question son rapport \u00e0 l\u2019alcool ne concerne pas que les adultes. Dans le milieu \u00e9tudiant, o\u00f9 l\u2019alcool et sociabilit\u00e9 sont associ\u00e9s, sensibiliser \u00e0 ce sujet est une n\u00e9cessit\u00e9.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Une illusion de confort\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

D\u00e9peints comme le moyen de sociabiliser \u00e0 l\u2019universit\u00e9, les cercles sont rapidement introduits d\u00e8s la rentr\u00e9e \u00e9tudiante des premi\u00e8res ann\u00e9es. Dorian, n\u2019ayant pas d\u2019amis dans sa facult\u00e9, participe au bapt\u00eame pour rentrer dans le cercle de psychologie. Il voyait cela comme une fa\u00e7on de s’int\u00e9grer socialement surtout en \u00e9tant isol\u00e9 \u00e0 son arriv\u00e9e. M\u00eame si l\u2019alcool est partout, c\u2019est surtout un facilitateur social et c\u2019est exactement ce dont voulait Dorian. \u201cOn ne parle jamais de l\u2019alcool, il est juste l\u00e0. On boit et on fait tout en buvant.<\/em>\u201d se souvient Dorian. Il explique qu\u2019il y a tout un rituel implicite autour de l\u2019alcool dans le milieu \u00e9tudiant mais jamais explicitement pr\u00e9sent\u00e9 comme un enjeu.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce qui est un verre hebdomadaire devient rapidement un r\u00e9flexe quotidien. Il ne fait plus que \u00e7a et s\u2019en contente. Dorian raconte que l’un des pi\u00e8ges dans lequel il est tomb\u00e9 a \u00e9t\u00e9 de croire qu’il devait \u00ab\u00a0profiter \u00e0 fond\u00a0\u00bb. Il y a cette id\u00e9e largement partag\u00e9e que les \u00e9tudes sont le moment id\u00e9al pour vivre pleinement sa jeunesse. Le risque est de ne pas penser aux cons\u00e9quences ou m\u00eame de les ignorer. Le confort social dans lequel il s\u2019est mis ne l\u2019a pas aid\u00e9 sur ce point. Lorsqu\u2019on est entour\u00e9 de personnes dans la m\u00eame situation que nous, il est difficile de sortir de la chambre d\u2019\u00e9cho.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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D’apr\u00e8s l’OMS<\/a>, l’alcool est responsable d’environ 25 % des d\u00e9c\u00e8s chez les 20-39 ans.
Image by freepik<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Ivresse \u00e0 la prise de conscience\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Se r\u00e9veiller seul \u00e0 midi dans une autre ville apr\u00e8s une soir\u00e9e a \u00e9t\u00e9 sa sonnette d\u2019alarme. M\u00eame si cela a pris du temps, Dorian s\u2019est vite rendu compte que les relations qu\u2019il a tiss\u00e9es sont fragiles. \u00ab\u00a0C’\u00e9tait pas du tout un vrai lien social, concr\u00e8tement c’\u00e9taient juste des esp\u00e8ces de partenaires de \u201c<\/em>bourrance\u201d quoi !<\/em>\u201d, affirme Dorian en riant.  La transition vers une vie sans alcool n\u2019est pas simple. Il faut changer compl\u00e8tement son environnement, y compris ses amis. Il pr\u00e9cise que le plus dur dans cette phase n’est pas tant de ne plus boire, mais plut\u00f4t la disparition de tout le contexte social qui l’accompagnait. Arr\u00eater d\u2019aller en soir\u00e9e, perdre des habitudes bien ancr\u00e9es et, surtout, se retrouver \u00e0 devoir remplacer tout ce temps \u00e0 ne plus faire la f\u00eate. Dorian se d\u00e9cide de reprendre ses cours et de s\u2019y int\u00e9resser r\u00e9ellement. Comprendre l\u2019alcoolisme mais surtout la banalisation de cette culture l\u2019a pouss\u00e9 \u00e0 agir.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00ab\u00a0C’\u00e9tait pas du tout un vrai lien social, concr\u00e8tement c’\u00e9taient juste des esp\u00e8ces de partenaires de \u201c<\/em>bourrance\u201d.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Aujourd\u2019hui, Dorian est engag\u00e9 dans la sensibilisation sur les risques li\u00e9s \u00e0 l\u2019alcool, avec l\u2019association Modus Vivendi<\/strong>. Il informe, propose de l\u2019aide, donne des formations et fait de la pr\u00e9vention en milieu \u00e9tudiant. Pour lui, faire cela, c\u2019est renouer avec soi-m\u00eame, un lien qu\u2019il n\u2019avait pas pu cr\u00e9er avant. C\u2019est pouvoir aider des personnes qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 comme lui, seules, et leur permettre d\u2019avoir ce recul, sans honte et peur de s\u2019isoler. \u201cAujourd\u2019hui, je tends la main l\u00e0 o\u00f9 j\u2019aurais aim\u00e9 qu\u2019on me l\u2019ait tendue.<\/em>\u201d souligne Dorian. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

*Nom d\u2019emprunt\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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